Problem VS Forginess


One of the reasons why most relationships struggle is because we salute the problem more than standing besides our loved ones. We honor the problem, glorify it, magnify it and worship it, until it breaks the relationship apart. If we honored our loved ones more than the problem, forgiveness will not be a struggle.
To understand this will definitely save a struggling relationship, family, friendship or marriage. It helps to weigh the problem or your loved one- whom do you choose? This is the key to forgiveness.

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